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Cry, Baby, Cry

How stoicism and the need to look unfazed or to 'save face' sabotage our emotional health, true healing and connection with others

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May 08, 2024
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Why is it so difficult to be honest with our emotions and express them directly — both to others and to ourselves?

I believe this is largely because we are conditioned to fit our emotional expressions into a narrow frame — one that’s acceptable to our caregivers and our culture — so as not to rock the boat.

Don’t rock the boat

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